There are no problems…
Do we have problems in our lives? Most of us will say a big ‘Yes’. Actually, there are no problems, they are only opportunities to do something in a different way or learn more from it.
Our brain works differently when we see an experience as an opportunity. It opens up loads of possibilities and options for us.
The child is crying : An opportunity for me to connect with the child, an opportunity for the child to learn to express his feelings.
The child remembers the homework in the last minute: An opportunity for the child to understand about natural consequences and problem solve.
Look at situations and opportunities instead of looking for problems.